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Life With a Service Dog

United Spinal Association is putting the StrongWheeled spotlight on members whose lives have been changed by the companionship of a service dog. Beginning this Veterans’ Day, we are highlighting the personal reflections of members on the unique and lasting impact that service dogs have had on their quality of life. Please enjoy these contributions by United Spinal members Adam Lane and West Livaudais (pictured above with Reggie), and keep an eye on our blog and social media for more amazing stories about and photos of life with a service dog from our community!


man using wheelchair with black lab service dog laying next to himAdam Lane

Prior to going to training and being matched with Graham, I was excited for the opportunity to have a service dog but did not realize all the benefits a service dog would bring into my life. When I was matched with Graham, trained with him, and brought him home, I knew I had a smart, well-trained dog that would make life a little easier, but I didn’t know the impact he would have on my life.

A few months after I brought Graham home, I realized that people out in public had changed towards me. I went from having to deal with patronizing behavior, to fielding questions about Graham, and then to enjoying people talking to me like anyone else.

black lab service dog head shot
Graham

Until I got married last year, I lived alone. Having Graham with me out in the world was great, but his companionship at home was amazing. Playing ball or snuggling after a hard day, celebrating wins together, and my favorite, daily walks together, brought a richness to my life I didn’t know I was missing.

Prior to meeting my wife, I would tell people all the time that Graham was the best thing that ever happened to me. Now, Graham is the second best thing that ever happened to me.


West Livaudais

black lab head shot
Reggie

Reggie is my service dog from Joy of Living Assistance Dogs, based out of Salem, Oregon.

Reggie is my shadow. Everywhere I go, Reggie is with me. He’s quiet and curls up in a ball under my chair. Oftentimes people don’t know he’s there and are surprised when they notice him as we get up to leave.

Reggie is my mirror. When I’m sad, he’s sad—and he comforts me. When I’m happy, he gets silly and zooms around. His intuition is keen. Sometimes I think he knows me better than I know myself.

Reggie is my escape route in fits of anxiety or frustration. I can lean on him to help me through. I can pet him, make him the center of the conversation or we can go outside “because he needs to pee”.

Reggie sacrifices his comforts for me. I am so deeply grateful for him.

Reggie is my entourage. He makes me look good in a wheelchair!